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Separation Anxiety in Babies
To
some degree, most babies will show true anxiety and upset at the
prospect — or reality — of being separated from their
parent. Although painful to parents (and of course, babies), separation
anxiety is fairly universal among babies and toddlers. If you think
about separation anxiety in evolutionary terms — which is
how many experts consider its origin— it makes sense: A baby
would naturally get upset at being separated from the person to
whom he's most bonded, and because that's the person who would protect
him from straying and keep him from predators.
Regardless of the origins of this normal developmental
stage, it's hard for babies and parents. Keep in mind, however,
that how we deal with babies and separations is largely a cultural
issue. In the United States, we stress autonomy from a very early
age. But, in many cultures in the world, infants are rarely separated
from their mothers in the first year of life.
Minimize separations as much as possible and take
baby along if he seems to feel anxious. With this option you're
basically waiting for your baby to outgrow this perfectly normal
developmental stage. If you feel you must have a night out before
your child seems ready, have a sitter come over after he has gone
to bed.

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