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Eight Ways to Bond with Your Baby
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By
Arabella Greatorex
Most parents bond instantly with their babies, an
intense feeling that makes you want to hold and love and protect
them. For some parents, this can take a little longer, especially
if there has been a difficult pregnancy or labor.Research indicates
that babies who develop fulfilling relationships with their parents
tend to grow into secure, well-adjusted adults and even perform
better at school.Bonding is a natural process but there are many
ways to help out, especially if you provide focused, responsive
care in a nurturing environment.
Breastfeeding
A breastfed baby will receive regular close contact with her mother,
helping an early bond to develop. Unfortunately, this is not always
easy, so speak to your health visitor if you need any help or assistance.
Touch
A baby's first communication is via touch, so hold your baby close,
cradle her in your arms or use a sling if you need to get on with
chores.
Massage
Massage provides a more structured method of touching your baby
and a way of promoting physical and mental growth as well as the
parent-baby bond.
Singing
No matter how tone deaf you may think you are, your baby will love
to hear your voice. The rhythmic nature of nursery rhymes is very
soothing and is believed to help with language development.
Talk
Although she may not understand what you are saying, your baby will
love to hear you chatting away about what you are doing, whether
it is changing her nappy, peeling the potatoes or folding the washing.
She will gain confidence from the fact that you are always near
and always focused upon her, even if the household chores need to
be done.
Pull a face
Even very young babies are fascinated by facial expressions!
Regular activities
Regular activities such as nappy-changing time are a wonderful time
to show your baby just how much you love him. Talk to him, kiss
his tummy, tell him what lovely dimples he has and how much you
love his smile. This will take your mind off what a messy job it
is and show that you love him, no matter what.
Slow down
Life is getting faster and faster, but slow and steady is best for
baby. Stop and spend time with your baby. Relax and enjoy yourself.
Your baby will love you no matter what.
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